Around 2018, I was sadly complaining to my friend, Sketer, I did not have enough savings because I felt I was wasting money. Confused, he asked me: “Do you have a job?”, “Do you have a girlfriend you send money or buy recharge card frequently to call?”, “Are you bearing any financial responsibility?” I said no to everything including to other questions. He told me emphatically I did not have savings problem.
I think that like ruler which can measure distance but not how far someone can go for you; height, which can be a criteria for being a basketball player but not a yardstick for how great a person would be; so I deem emotions as something that can tell our moods but might not be a good yardstick for determining the correctness of our judgement. A few times in our lives, we need third-party perspectives on personal issues we are already drawing conclusions.
There are times we ask ourselves questions and what we are seeking is reassurance; and other times, what we are seeking is revelation. However, I think starting with condemnation is not the best approach and neither is being silent: it does not signify peace. I know it’s good to be our own worst critic but it’s also good to have a system to empower ourselves against the disempowerment we are wreaking on ourselves with negative thoughts.
Getting a different perspective on an issue does not mean we are incapable. Rather it means we are truth-seeking. There is a liberation that comes with that.
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